tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post1804141162631742663..comments2023-06-16T21:49:55.940+08:00Comments on Confessions of a medical officer: The Babyconfessions of a medical studenthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-60867798428914304062008-11-09T15:18:00.000+08:002008-11-09T15:18:00.000+08:00> anonymous, this is a diary of my experience a...> anonymous, this is a diary of my experience at the forensic hall.. this is not how a forensic report should be written.. (my doctor will nag if i submit my forensic report in this format)... a forensic report is more detailed, formal and the format is totally different... and of course i did NOT post the forensic report i submitted to my consultant, here(my blog)!! sigh... and the picture is not the real one.. we were not allow to take pictures of the baby or publish the baby pictures.. this is just some other baby picture i took off the web.. (which i had explained earlier)... don't worry, i am very careful of ethical issues... i just merely hoping to send the message out to the public that, they should never abandon a baby... and that delivering a baby without medical assistance can be life-threatening... and the message of contraception and all... i hope you understood my message too and do pass it on :)<BR/><BR/>p/s: oh yes, next time, do leave a name.. would appreciate that :)<BR/><BR/>>jessie, yup, it makes us appreciate life even more.. especially when we see bodies from accidents and suicidal attempts..confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-36906739245780167242008-11-09T13:24:00.000+08:002008-11-09T13:24:00.000+08:00sad...it almost d same as my 1st forensic, just ta...sad...it almost d same as my 1st forensic, just tat mine one is much more terrible..really..stil remember after d day of forensic, i feel like cant do anything after tis for whole day..so, appreciate life, n thanksgiving for stil able to breath...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-18655454601930369522008-11-07T00:21:00.000+08:002008-11-07T00:21:00.000+08:00hmm....izit ethical to disclose the detail of a po...hmm....izit ethical to disclose the detail of a postmortem finding or any other related information like this through the web?? or this is a fake report?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-22601817844455547382008-10-29T23:30:00.000+08:002008-10-29T23:30:00.000+08:00stp, selling a baby is illegal, isn't it? True, th...stp, selling a baby is illegal, isn't it? True, there are childless couples who might adopt this baby.. but only few.. The numbers of orphans in homes are drastically increasing, especially children with many medical problems, abandoned by their parents.. If you ever had a chance to visit Tengku Budriah Orphanage Home, you may find that the orphanage home may not be the ideal place for a child to grow up.. these unwanted children, many are emotional deprived, and suffering from multiple medical illness and developmental delay... it's so sad to see this... that's why i'm all out for abstinence, good moral values, and contraception..confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-16624697262498412392008-10-29T19:22:00.000+08:002008-10-29T19:22:00.000+08:00Girls getting caughtin such situations could give ...Girls getting caughtin such situations could give away the baby. There are many childless couples who would give the world to have a child like that...so much so that they may even be willing to pay a fortune for one. At least, selling the baby is better than killing it!...This is not the first, and it will not be the last!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-55412473656802604812008-07-17T23:58:00.000+08:002008-07-17T23:58:00.000+08:00>joethew>>yes, it's a sad world :( .....>joethew>>yes, it's a sad world :( ...still hoping for a better world....confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-14379698015532028102008-07-17T17:37:00.000+08:002008-07-17T17:37:00.000+08:00yalor..so cruel!how can a mother treated Her own b...yalor..so cruel!how can a mother treated Her own baby that way!?!feel sorry fot the baby..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-71726124572002158212008-07-16T18:37:00.000+08:002008-07-16T18:37:00.000+08:00indeed, it's so sad for the baby..link? sure ^^ no...indeed, it's so sad for the baby..<BR/><BR/>link? sure ^^ no problem! my pleasure... =)confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-31472236661999906532008-07-16T14:49:00.000+08:002008-07-16T14:49:00.000+08:00poor baby.gosh, only heartless ppl do this. :(anyh...poor baby.gosh, only heartless ppl do this. :(<BR/>anyho, can i linked urs? hehe.alia amirahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04198263406949244670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-51862688677743837532008-07-10T23:36:00.000+08:002008-07-10T23:36:00.000+08:00>ezralimm>> yes.. it's so sad... the social stigma...>ezralimm>> yes.. it's so sad... the social stigma sometimes suffocates a women... if only we could change that..confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-454180991406105522008-07-10T22:52:00.000+08:002008-07-10T22:52:00.000+08:00This is what happens when sex is taboo. When the m...This is what happens when sex is taboo. When the moralistic paradigm raises it's ugly head over society.ezralimmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07690909751771535829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-41238795545058394302008-07-09T18:22:00.000+08:002008-07-09T18:22:00.000+08:00>daryl teo>> yes, young unwed mothers do not know ...>daryl teo>> yes, young unwed mothers do not know who to turn to... in the end, they suffer, the baby suffer.... perhaps they did not know of the social service available and the befrienders... <BR/><BR/>then again, it all began with lust, premarital sex, etc... our Malaysia society had poor sex education, with it being a social stigma.. and something too embarrassed to be discussed... <BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>>cyren z.wong>> No, that was not the picture of the baby, we weren't allowed to take pictures during the postmortem, the picture was from my textbook.. but i can still clearly picture the baby in my mind... <BR/><BR/>the mother delivering the baby herself and abandoning it--- and i thought such situation only happened in movies, until i saw this.... it's really, really sad, but it happens.... i really hope young mothers would think before they act... there is always help.. but u need to seek help first....<BR/>-----------------------------------<BR/><BR/>i saw a patient 2 weeks back at the obstetric ward, she was 38weeks pregnant and hide her pregnancy from her parents until she had contraction pain. She had no antenatal screening, and the doctors managed to perform the basic investigation. Lucky for her, she had a normal delivery and the doctor was there to manage the blood loss during delivery... but bear in mind, not all pregnancy is that lucky... maternal mortality and morbidity rates are still considerable high in this country.. the society should realise that pregnancy is not something to be taken lightly...common pregnancy condition like gestational diabetes, hypertension in pregnancy, placenta previa, etc are of high risk to both mother and fetal... <BR/><BR/>p/s: she was referred to the social workers and her baby was op for adoptionconfessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-10091699160164579532008-07-09T16:32:00.000+08:002008-07-09T16:32:00.000+08:00Ola nuffnanger!Was that the bady...this is rather ...Ola nuffnanger!<BR/><BR/>Was that the bady...this is rather disturbing. But still...as undoubtedly "cruel" as it is...I suppose we have no idea what circumstance the mother was in. Perhaps abandoning the child in hopes that he would be found by someone else was the best solution of her.<BR/><BR/>I cannot possibly fathom what could go through a mother's mind that would make her abandon the kid...but I don't quite believe it is as simple as just not "wanting" to have the kid around.<BR/><BR/>It is still very sad though. My heart really went out to it...Cyren Asteraceyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14804752654320004514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-53032286515789950982008-07-09T08:55:00.000+08:002008-07-09T08:55:00.000+08:00Disturbing to know that people are capable of such...Disturbing to know that people are capable of such cruelty. Most times we are insulated from the harsher realities of life. The no. of unwanted pregnancies that get carried to full term resulting in abandoned babies or infanticide is disturbing and not enough is being done to provide a safety net for these young mothers. Something ought to be done to address this legislatively to allow unwed mothers to bring their pregnancies to term without fear of reprisals.Daryl Teohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06665985803565311110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-58899701055703900792008-07-07T12:39:00.000+08:002008-07-07T12:39:00.000+08:00Thank you. I agree with you,.. i am still hoping f...Thank you. I agree with you,.. i am still hoping for a better world...confessions of a medical studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14072107999155319469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4784256395919400364.post-11739153513164523352008-07-07T10:28:00.000+08:002008-07-07T10:28:00.000+08:00This post left me heartbroken. The constant human ...This post left me heartbroken. The constant human display of cruelty never seized to shock me. I guess we just need to cling on to the thought that there's still hope and good in mankind, and this is just a few cases of rotten apples.<BR/><BR/>This is a very good message you're sending. I applaud that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com